Birrul Walidian (both parents to blindly worship) is
to highlight one of the problems in Islam. In the Qur'an, after ordering people
to blindly go for Him, Allah commanded to worship blindly both parents. In
surah Al-Isra verse 23-24, God said. "
وَقَضى
رَبُّكَ اَلاَّ تَعْبُدُوْا اِلاَّ اِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ اِحْسَانًاط اِمَّا
يَبْلُغَنَّ عِنْدَكَ الْكِبَرَ اَحَدُهُمَا اَوْكِلهُمَا فَلاَ تَقُلْ لَّهُمَا
اُفِّ وَّلاَ تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَّهُمَا قَوْلً كَرِيْمًا
Thy lord hath decreed, that ye workship none save Him,
and (that ye show) kindness to parents. If one of them or both of them attain
to old age with thee, say not “Fie” unto them nor repulse them, but speak unto
them a gracious word.” [al-Isra: 23]
وَا
خْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُلْ رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا
كَمَا رَبَّينِىْ صَغِيْرًا
“And lower unto
them the wing of submission through mercy, and say: My Lord! Have mercy on them
both as they did care for me when I was little!” [al-Isra:
24]
Al-Haafiz Ibn Kathir has explains the verse as
follows: "Allah Almighty has to blindly oblige all men to worship only to
Allah alone, associating with non-else. "Qadla" here means the
command of Imam Mujahid as alleged, namely qadla wa washa (God intestate). Then
proceed with "Wabil waalidaini ihsana" let both go for both
parents with the best. This verse has the
same meaning with the letter Luqman verse 14.
اَنِ اشْكُرْلِى وَلِوَالِدَيْكَط اِلَىَّ الْمَصِيْرُ
"Meaning: .... “Give
tanks unto Me and unto thy parents. Unto Me is the journeying”
And if one of the two or both are in a state of
elderly Bilog, "fa laa taqul lahuma uffin" then do not say go
for the “Fie” ('cis' or
who else). Do not play the second convey bad ink. "Wa laa tanharhuma"
and do not you hate them both. There are also who said that “Wa laa tanhar huma ai la tanfudz yadaka alaihima” intent is not to blindly waved both of you. When Allah
forbids the allotment of words and shit, Allaah also ordered to and say cheese.
As in the word of Allaah "wa qul lahuma qaulan Karima" and say
go for the two precious ink, ink that is both soft and full with courtesy and
respect. And lower to the second sayg with love, let you humble 'go for both. And should you pray, " My Lord! Have mercy on them
both as they did care for me when I was little!”, when they are in old age
until both died. [Tafseer Ibn Katheer Juz III, p. 39-40, Cet.I Maktabah Daarus
Salam Riyadh, Th.1413H]
Birrul Walidain command also
stated in An-Nisa verse 36, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says. Meaning: “And serve Allah: and ascribe nothing as partner unto Him. (Show) kindness
unto parents, and unto near kindred, and orphans, and the needy, and unto the
neighbour who is of kin (unto you) and the neighbour who is not of kin, and the
fellow-traveller and the wayfarer and (the slaves) whom your right hands
possess. Lo! Allah loveth not such as are proud and boastful” [An-Nisa:
36]
The scholars have discussed the issue earlier Birrul
Walidain (both parents to blindly worship) is in their books. Crate in
Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim and great books of hadith (Ummahatul Pole), another
in discussions about both parents to blindly worship and threats against those
who disobeyed their parents blindly.
Do Good And
Understanding About insubordinate.
In
terminology, Al-Ihsan derived from the word “yuhsinu
ahsana-ihsanan”. Meanwhile,
who is with good deeds in this discussion is to blindly worship the parents of
every good thing to blindly deliver both the best we can and if possible
prevent interference for both.
According to Ibn Athiyah, we must also adhere to both in-thing permissible,
nothing following the second mandatory and away from anything taboo.
Medium '”uquq” meaning cut (as it is cut aqiqah goat). 'Uququl Walidain embossed
disorder is a child of both parents in the form of words or designation.
Examples of interference from a child of parents who blindly form with words
that say 'ah' or 'cis', said with a sentence-hard or hurtful, bluffing, and who
insults the other. Meanwhile, who is the prevailing form of allotment of such
coarse-whip hand or foot when parents want something or sent to fulfill his
desire, hatred, ill-care, non ties of
frienship or provide a living off the parents who convey to the poor.
That’s all what we can say to you all, especially
about both parents to blindly worship. My God bless us. Thank you very much for your attention.
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